Episodes
Sunday Jun 23, 2024
Mastering Your Mind: Transforming Reality Through Perception
Sunday Jun 23, 2024
Sunday Jun 23, 2024
In this episode, we explore the profound concept that our perception shapes our reality. While we acknowledge the objective nature of reality, the subjective interpretation is what truly defines our experiences. Discover how your current activities can transform from mundane to extraordinary simply by shifting your mindset.
Dive deep into the mechanics of the mind with insights from NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming). Learn about sub-modalities and how our five senses—vision, hearing, feeling, taste, and smell—encode and give meaning to our experiences. We'll break down how these sensory inputs form representational systems that shape our reality.
Through practical exercises, you'll learn to change your internal sensory experiences, altering how you perceive various aspects of life, from fears and anxieties to positive interactions. Understand the power of perceptual positions and how viewing situations from different perspectives can provide new insights and solutions.
Finally, we'll apply these techniques to common issues like social anxiety, illustrating how shifting sub-modalities can lead to significant changes in how you feel and react. This episode is a journey into the mind, offering tools and strategies to help you reshape your reality and improve your life.
Friday Jun 07, 2024
FAITH. The Foundation of Your Identity - With thanks to L. Storbel C4C
Friday Jun 07, 2024
Friday Jun 07, 2024
Faith is the foundation.
From here we build all things. If the foundation is rotten, you know what will follow.
But faith is not based simply on intensity. No matter how much you believe a snake wont bite you if you put your finger in its mouth, you will get bitten.
We have to look at the object of our faith, the reliability of it and if it is objectively true.
If these criteria are met, then you have truth - no deception and only from here, can you proceed with confidence.
MASSIVE shout out to Lee Strobel, much of this episode is dedicated to his works.
Wednesday Jul 26, 2023
The thing BEHIND your Motivation, What Drives others, and the Solution
Wednesday Jul 26, 2023
Wednesday Jul 26, 2023
All in 15minutes?
Only listen if you have studied self-help, understand the 6 human needs and want to go deeper.
Wednesday Apr 26, 2023
How to Stop Screwing things up (The horse before cart episode)
Wednesday Apr 26, 2023
Wednesday Apr 26, 2023
There was only one reason so many people messed up, once they realize it, everything changes, hope its not too late in your life for this one...
Sunday Mar 05, 2023
Childhood Trauma - How it affects you - What you Can do about it
Sunday Mar 05, 2023
Sunday Mar 05, 2023
This one goes deep. Make sure your ready for it...
Friday Feb 17, 2023
Psychology and Real Martial Arts
Friday Feb 17, 2023
Friday Feb 17, 2023
MMA and Psychology.
The path leads deeper than you think. Just like one path will make you a master, the other lead to a double degree of mastery.
You will like this one, at the end you become your own coach, not just by what you learn...
Sunday Jan 01, 2023
What’s on the other side of Self Help? What comes Next...
Sunday Jan 01, 2023
Sunday Jan 01, 2023
So, you have studied self-help for a long time, you are successful. What do you do now?
Enjoy this new perspective.
Thursday Dec 01, 2022
The Most RARE Thing YOU Have, EVERYONE Wants, and You May Not be Aware of...
Thursday Dec 01, 2022
Thursday Dec 01, 2022
When you know, you know.
Tuesday Nov 01, 2022
How to dictate the outcome when your not in charge
Tuesday Nov 01, 2022
Tuesday Nov 01, 2022
That's right, you have 0 power, no ability and are helpless in a situation.
Or are you?
In ANY situation you can change things, NOT by will power or force.
Find out how...
Saturday Oct 01, 2022
Neuroscience, Visualization and Changing your World
Saturday Oct 01, 2022
Saturday Oct 01, 2022
Not just another visualization self help podcast.
This one goes three levels deep and at the end you will realize that you must visualize or suffer (that's right - if you don't visualize you will not only have a lower chance of success, you will suffer.) amongst other things.
Lets get into it and upgrade your life.
Thursday Sep 01, 2022
The Life Review Method.
Thursday Sep 01, 2022
Thursday Sep 01, 2022
You achieved you goals, your type A, driven.
Or even if your not.
If you fail to hit this step the outcome is usually the same = REGRET.
H8 regret? Then do the Life Review.
Monday Aug 01, 2022
Monday Aug 01, 2022
You can learn a confidence trick in 2 minutes, yet your life doesn't really change.
You can spend years at the psychologist, yet you only manage to feel a bit better, not BE better.
Its all about the Unconscious mind. Don't let people mess with it.
NO - Affirmations, The Secret, Wishing WILL NOT WORK.
When you learn truth it has a 'ring of truth to it.' Listen to this, as we go through not only what has to be done step by step, but also the underlying principles. Then tell me it's false?
Become your own master. Don't let your mind, past events and circumstances limit who you really are.
Saturday Jul 30, 2022
CBT in 3 Easy Steps
Saturday Jul 30, 2022
Saturday Jul 30, 2022
We all hear about CBT, yet when it is practiced it is often either:
1) Too complicated and confusing
OR
2) Too brief to be helpful
This Episode unpacks a third option
3) Utilizing first principles allows you to not only use it but understand it deeply in 3 easy steps.
Saturday Jul 09, 2022
How to make your Future define your Present and How the Past cannot define you
Saturday Jul 09, 2022
Saturday Jul 09, 2022
Start with that one question we ALL ask ourselves, then reverse engineer it.
Saturday Jun 18, 2022
Saturday Jun 18, 2022
In this Episode on the mind:
1) We examine how the mind works
2) The Two ways people use their minds
3) Once you use your mind correctly, how to optimize it
4) How to break and overcome environmental and genetic considerations
5) How someone used this process from becoming (objectively) a poor student, physically the weakest & slowest, with other countless limitations to being a national sports champion in combat sports, Lecturer at Universities, attaining multiple degrees, and countless other accomplishments, ALL by starting with the material in this episode.
(Spoiler alert, that guy was me.)
Saturday May 28, 2022
Saturday May 28, 2022
How would it feel if you could effortlessly be popular with everyone, even if you are introverted?
This Episode will show you how.
What if you feel fake, or are insecure?
This Episode will show you how to overcome this too.
All in one show, how to change your live and impact others.
Enjoy.
Saturday May 07, 2022
The Science of Teaching Others to Treat You Well AND How to Elevate Others...
Saturday May 07, 2022
Saturday May 07, 2022
People treat you based on how you treat yourself. This is just the beginning. Lets unpack the full science to being treated well by others, and the UPGRADE is - How to elevate others to the next level, synergistically enriching your life too.
Saturday Apr 16, 2022
Saturday Apr 16, 2022
So by now, you realize that pumping yourself up gets you a short term buzz at best, but never provides true satisfaction. Or maybe mindfulness took some stress away but you still fail to truely overcome that one thing.
What if you could get the same clear result as you could from years of counselling? This technique while it isn't guaranteed, has helped COUNTLESS people.
Before you try any confidence, mindfulness or lifestyle hack. Check this out.
Game Changing.
Saturday Mar 26, 2022
Saturday Mar 26, 2022
You know it already.
SMART Goals
Different Domains
Discipline
BORING + INEFFECTIVE = WASTE OF YOUR TIME!
Yet most people fail. Even if you are one of those people who achieves the goals, are they meaningful in a few years time?
Enjoy this episode as we unpack a unique approach so NOT only will you be able to:
- Achieve ANY Goal (Finally!)
BUT (more importantly)
- These Goals will be yours, worthwhile and lead to something even bigger!
Saturday Mar 05, 2022
Saturday Mar 05, 2022
Most of this series has been about getting better. But if you build the worlds best mansion on crappy foundations, it wont last. In this episode we start the digging and healing process. Only process when your ready to make long term changes.
There are three type of people: Those who know they need to fix themselves or their past. Those who have fixed the past. Then Those who are ignorant (and think they don't have anything to fix - applies to all of us to a degree.)
Been doing this for ages, milestones reached, serving countless people online and face to face. Now is a good time to Call it... Season Two.
Saturday Feb 12, 2022
The New Theory of Projection. How it can change the world you live in.
Saturday Feb 12, 2022
Saturday Feb 12, 2022
We all know about Projecting right? The Person who turns their anger on the innocent. The Boss under pressure who takes it out on their employee, or maybe the Partner who treats their innocent spouse with contempt.
On this episode we learn not only how to deal with the above but reverse engineer it to see how you can utilize this superpower.
Saturday Jan 22, 2022
Pain to Change
Saturday Jan 22, 2022
Saturday Jan 22, 2022
When working with people who want to change, there is a difference. Those who succeed are driven, and often pain is a factor. Just like pain is God's gift to allow us to pull our hand back when it feels the sting of a blade to prevent further damage, the type of pain that drives people to change is also a gift.
The only problem is that people then set about trying to change things only to fail, or even worse change the wrong thing that has even more negative consequences.
Lets explore change technology, why it ruins some people, and how to apply it (successfully) with massive gain in your life!
Saturday Jan 01, 2022
The Lazy Persons Guide to Being Completely Successful in EVERY Area of Your Life
Saturday Jan 01, 2022
Saturday Jan 01, 2022
We are all Lazy. Yes even you the Type A overachiever! This is the nature of the mind and how we interact with reality.
In this episode we will explore
- WHY we are all Actually Lazy
and
- How to HACK this to achieve anything (and everything!)
Personal Upgrade: The different Approach to Self Discovery and Enhanced Abilities. The Last Stop in Personal Development. Unique Approach designed for the Mind. Books available, Course Release Date TBA.
By Michael Pulser your Personal Upgrade Guide - Changing Countless Lives for Over a Decade...
Saturday Dec 25, 2021
Avoid the Self Help Scams (P.S they are everywhere...)
Saturday Dec 25, 2021
Saturday Dec 25, 2021
This episode will focus on the Self Help Scams out there...
Apart from the obvious (tens of thousands of dollars for coaching and courses) you may be surprised that it goes deeper and chances are many of your favorite 'content creators' are doing you a MASSIVE disservice.
Watching the industry over many decades I have seen the changes and the problems from the past resolve and create new problems. If you like Personal Growth Material then you should listen to this.
BTW - if you downloaded this episode on its release... MERRY CHRISTMAS!!!
Saturday Dec 11, 2021
The Ultimate Podcast on Dealing with Problems, Crisis and Difficulties
Saturday Dec 11, 2021
Saturday Dec 11, 2021
Life is about challenges.
We solve problems daily with at work, home and in everyday life.
Then along comes the bomb and we realize what a Problem really is!
Learning to deal with these issues is complex, but I have broken this down to include:
- The root of ALL problems
- The two essential shifts you must make or else nothing will work
- How to practically deal with all Problems
- How to deal with the mental toll of each problem
and believe it or not how you can actually grow from the process (I know - if your career, marriage or health is at risk its easier said than done, but listen in to see what I mean)
This episode was done out of a need to assist people who have been told to look on the bright side, things will get better, do deep breathing, talk about it etc. - AND NONE OF THIS STUFF HELPED!
As always let me know what you think.
Saturday Nov 27, 2021
How to Master your Emotions
Saturday Nov 27, 2021
Saturday Nov 27, 2021
Too often we miss the mark when exploring our feelings, emotions and reactions.
Once you discover the Driver of the emotions you have the tool to control everything.
In this episode we:
- Discover the tool
- Unpack it and learn how it works against us
- Learn how to control it
- Utilize a 3 step approach to Master emotions long term
In less than 10 minutes you can at a minimum have a great day or best case - CHANGE YOUR ENTIRE APPROACH TO LIFE!
Saturday Nov 13, 2021
Looking for Upgrades in Quora - Reddit - Etc.?
Saturday Nov 13, 2021
Saturday Nov 13, 2021
We are bombarded with information including self help.
I was honestly not going to enter the public Psychology/Personal Growth arena back in the early 2000's because of this very reason, however it occurred to me that:
- Most of the new stuff was on a conveyer belt to produce a dopamine hit at best
- Other stuff was useful for selective application only
- Full systems were rare, but most were incomplete or faulty
Doing my apprenticeship including working with people - reading those 1000 + books and more I realized that we need a complete system that the conscious and unconscious mind can utilize.
I could foresee that new data may enter the arena so I included an expansion upgrade to the system which slots into the current system and allows new information.
That way you can still browse a reddit, Quora, internet article, book or podcast and find something that is highly useful - then add it onto the Alpha Dude System.
This episode will unpack both how to do this and introduce the concept of discernment.
Sunday Oct 24, 2021
CRASHPROOF! - How to avoid being Dominated
Sunday Oct 24, 2021
Sunday Oct 24, 2021
Someone is talking to you, then before long, they are dominating you.
You go to a social event to have fun and find that people just want to talk over you.
Everyone has dealt with something similar - this podcast covers what you can do to not only survive but thrive.
Then you can have fun. Watch as the other person starts to conform to your reality.
Of course your reality is one of pure motives, so there's no manipulation or cognitive dissonance.
Enjoy!
Saturday Oct 09, 2021
Understanding Behavior - YOURS & OTHERS - How to Maintain and Build Your Frame
Saturday Oct 09, 2021
Saturday Oct 09, 2021
In this episode we will unpack many concepts including:
- How to deal with difficult people
- How to deal with your difficult states
- Learn how to overcome past conditioning
- Stop buying into other peoples Frames
- Maintain your own Frame
- Build and Upgrade your Frame
all premised on one little Secret*
Saturday Sep 25, 2021
Saturday Sep 25, 2021
We all hold past traumas in our physiology, like it or not. BUT you don't have to live with them, they are repairable, and you can even hack the same system that gave you the problem and use it to help with growth.
This episode explores how.
This is a little known field, where through deconstruction I have aligned it with the Systematic approach I tach and the synergy is amazing, you'll see.
Book reference:
Saturday Sep 11, 2021
Saturday Sep 11, 2021
This EPISODE is a prerequisite for life.
I'm sure you know to take responsibility for things by now, but how deep is this really? Can it turn someone with no hope into a complete success. What is your story that holds you back.
Not taking responsibility is an excuse, this episode holds the antidote.
Try this and watch everything change!
Sunday Aug 29, 2021
Looking for Upgrades from Quora, Reddit, Etc.
Sunday Aug 29, 2021
Sunday Aug 29, 2021
You are being blasted with thousands of messages daily.
A lot of its good, a lot of its bad.
However even the good stuff, there is simply too much to apply. What do we do?
This episode covers how the process of information acquisition works, how to discern and optimize the process.
If you don't take into account the message of this podcast, you may be wasting many years - lets get this handled!
Saturday Aug 14, 2021
How to be Assertive - The Masters Plan
Saturday Aug 14, 2021
Saturday Aug 14, 2021
Sunday Aug 01, 2021
Eye Contact - The Best Podcast on Eye Contact Ever.
Sunday Aug 01, 2021
Sunday Aug 01, 2021
I know, I know - The title = Bold claim yes - Click bait no!
However in this episode we look at ALL facets of eye contact - why most systems and books fail (and actually make your entire game worse) then what you can do to change everything.
Speaking vs Listening Ratios - Back to front?
The only way to communicate strength and warmth when Breaking eye contact
Why working on your eye contact makes everything worse
Why spending time interpreting eye contact is a waste of time
The deconstruction approach to the entirety of communication (thanks Jacques Derrida)
What to do to fix your flaws
and so much more!
A really comprehensive episode, hope its useful.
Further information:
Sunday Jul 18, 2021
Psychology of Selling - Universal Application
Sunday Jul 18, 2021
Sunday Jul 18, 2021
Capitalism by definition depends on profits and in order to make a profit YOU are selling something.
Professionally its either your service as a teacher or a retailer.
Stepping outside of Capitalism we have social interactions which trades in value of a different kind. If you are being manipulative in either case you will fail, this episode will focus on the successful application instead.
Friday Jul 02, 2021
Introvert - Guide to Life
Friday Jul 02, 2021
Friday Jul 02, 2021
A MUST FOR THE INTROVERT
Last year we covered Introversion vs Extroversion, how to Capitalize on the Strengths and overcome the Weaknesses *see link below*
This year we will dig into how you can overcome the negative effects of introversion so you can UPGRADE all aspects of your life.
An extrovert gets charged from interactions and as such electrify others with their energy (in a positive way) - before an introvert gets drained, they start at full charge, lets explore how to INCREASE your charge capacity, RUN longer before draining out and WHAT to do when you start to get drained.
Extroversion vs Introversion Link:
https://www.podbean.com/ew/pb-43smc-dca677
Sunday Jun 20, 2021
Design the Future - Concept and Exercise Included
Sunday Jun 20, 2021
Sunday Jun 20, 2021
Last episode we unpacked how to heal the past, which is imperative if you want to move past those stumbling blocks that have held you back.
Now its onto the future.
If you have the right recipe you can make an amazing cake, this is essentially the recipe for an amazing future.
Friday Jun 18, 2021
Upgrade your Mind with Logic - Learn the Full Logic Course Free
Friday Jun 18, 2021
Friday Jun 18, 2021
Complete Course in Logic, Spirituality and Apologetics. Packaged like a Tiramisu cake, multilayered and served in a baby bowl, all mixed together.
No episode is the same. Each episode has a unique focus. Always educational and most of all fun!
Testimony of a NPC • A podcast on Anchor
Saturday May 29, 2021
Healing the Past - Concept and Exercise Included
Saturday May 29, 2021
Saturday May 29, 2021
All of us have been hurt (or hurt others in the past.)
If you want to know how you can resolve this, it is entirely possible.
First we understand with the A vs B theory of time, working through the trauma and come out the other side healed.
Sound too much? Try it out!
Sunday May 09, 2021
Unpacking and Upgrading The Charisma Myth
Sunday May 09, 2021
Sunday May 09, 2021
The famous book 'The Charisma Myth' informs the reader on how anyone can become charismatic. Using many of the concepts in the earlier written Personal Upgrade - we unpack and of course upgrade this work.
Sunday Apr 18, 2021
Metacognition vs Mindfulness
Sunday Apr 18, 2021
Sunday Apr 18, 2021
Thinking about one thoughts is a major aspect of this system, only through introspection can we plan, correct and fulfill potential.
However it may be working against you; so lets explore the false dichotomy of mindfulness vs metacognition and how to apply it in ANY situation, from negative to positive, beginning with anxiety...
Sunday Apr 04, 2021
See things before they happen
Sunday Apr 04, 2021
Sunday Apr 04, 2021
Once you can maintain long term plans regardless of the short term by developing a vision or version of short term events you have successfully Pre Framed.
Explore this concept further, make it a natural part of what you do and recognize this is what all successful people do. Upgrades as always we look at the bilateral implications and more.
Sunday Mar 21, 2021
The Ultimate Hack to Change Everything - Simplified
Sunday Mar 21, 2021
Sunday Mar 21, 2021
If learning psychology is too hard, Self Help Bores you and your not making any changes?
The answer is here:
Learn how to change everything by changing one thing. You are already doing this unguided naturally, being intentional in this one area honestly is the difference between nothing and everything,
Sunday Mar 07, 2021
World Cup Theory Psychology
Sunday Mar 07, 2021
Sunday Mar 07, 2021
This episodes explores the parallels of the Word Cup and Psychology.
Train, Qualify, Understand the Rules and Play the Game.
Of course we Upgrade things, stick around and level up your game!
Sunday Jan 31, 2021
How to be a Human Lie Detector - the Different Approach
Sunday Jan 31, 2021
Sunday Jan 31, 2021
In this Episode:
1) We will look at liars and turn the mirror on ourselves
2) We will learn to catch others
and to Upgrade
We will go deeper of course.
Enjoy
Sunday Jan 17, 2021
Deal with Pain (No its not just positive thinking)
Sunday Jan 17, 2021
Sunday Jan 17, 2021
We all have experienced pain and for some it is quite extreme.
This episode unpacks some new and unique tools to not only deal with pain, but the underlying philosophy behind it. We are all so comfortable and try to avoid pain at all costs, however this often means that the last time we had pain we didn't deal with it correctly, subsequently the mere thought triggers anxiety.
If you go through the process correctly, everything changes.
Saturday Jan 02, 2021
Frame Control Vs Presence - The Antithesis or the Solution?
Saturday Jan 02, 2021
Saturday Jan 02, 2021
Most people who understand Frame Control realize that being outcome based it stands in stark contrast with the equally useful approach of being Present or in the moment which is outcome independent.
This episode explores the dichotomy and resolves the tension leading to synergism, I hope you like it.
Sunday Dec 20, 2020
Develop your Will Power and Determination. Immediate and Long Term.
Sunday Dec 20, 2020
Sunday Dec 20, 2020
This episode will reveal how you can effect short and long term change in your life, and how the immediate affects the long term (an vice versa.)
The short term approach is far different from the long term approach, and when combined together we see synergy.
Lets look at the recipe...
Sunday Nov 29, 2020
Chasing Comfort is Chasing Hell
Sunday Nov 29, 2020
Sunday Nov 29, 2020
The paradox of chasing comfort, with all the work it takes only to find on the other side that it's not only a terrible place to be - BUT also that you worked SO hard to get to this place.
If you have experienced this, then you know something has to change, or if you haven't then save yourself the heartbreak by taking the different path.
Sunday Nov 22, 2020
The Rude B!tch - how to transform any situation.
Sunday Nov 22, 2020
Sunday Nov 22, 2020
We begin with the classic situation you have no doubt encountered.
Then we transition into how to deal with it, along the way somewhere we learn something about ourselves, and the transformation is complete.